Obituary: John Gill, Jr.

John Gill, Jr., at 65

It is with heavy hearts and deep love that we announce the passing of John Gill, Jr., who left this world peacefully on April 16, 2025, surrounded by those who meant the most to him.

A man of mirth and love, Mr. Gill was born on November 6, 1959 and grew up in West Roxbury, a place that helped shape the warmth, humor, and grit he carried throughout his life. He was a proud Catholic Memorial High School graduate and later earned his degree from UMass-Boston, reflecting his dedication to hard work, education, and perseverance.

Mr. Gill loved life and brought humor and warmth to everyone he met. He was a born storyteller who turned something as simple as a failed fishing knot into a 20-minute rant, laced with caustic, acerbic wit that left everyone in stitches. Whether he was cooking for a crowd, battling a tuna out at sea with his fishing buddies, playing on the floor with his grandkids, teeing off at Ponky, or driving the senior shuttle, Mr. Gill was always quick with a kind word or perfectly timed wisecrack.

He also was an athlete with heart – a star catcher for the Clams of the West Roxbury Men’s Softball League, where his quick hands, sharp eye, and even sharper dugout banter made him a legend among teammates and competitors alike.

Some of Mr. Gill’s happiest days were spent on the water, fishing with his Dad and his brother Joe nearly every Father’s Day, chasing striped bass around the Boston Harbor Islands. His love of fishing started early, with flounder trips in Quincy Bay, where he’d often reel in more skate than flounder, but always with a laugh and a good story to bring home.

Mr. Gill brought joy to everyone he worked with over the years, from working the deli at Purity Supreme, to overseeing ad inserts for the Bob’s at the Boston Herald, to managing the Fan Pier seafood processing for Stavis, and even mastering bovine insemination in Northern Vermont (though rumors of redheaded cows remain unconfirmed). Whatever the job, Mr. Gill showed up with humor, work ethic, and an ability to connect with anyone.

He was the devoted and loving father of twin daughters, Kate and Erin, and nothing brought him greater joy than watching them build lives filled with love and purpose. He took immense pride in their families and the close bond they all shared.

Kate is married to Marvin Dormainville, and together they are raising Mr. Gill’s beloved grandson, Miles, who brought endless light into his life. Erin is married to Brett Johnson, and their daughter, Nora, was another bright joy in Mr. Gill’s heart – his sweet granddaughter who made his face light up with every smile.

Mr. Gill also shared a deep and unwavering bond with the love of his life, Susan Clover of Hull. Their partnership was filled with laughter, support, and genuine companionship – a love that stood the test of time and gave John a profound sense of happiness.

Mr. Gill is survived by his loving parents, Jack and Fran Gill, who remained a steady presence and source of love throughout his life. He is also survived by his brother, Joe Gill, his wife Anne, his sister Debbie Wightman and her husband Paul, as well as many nieces, nephews, cousins, and dear friends who will forever carry his spirit with them. A